On Wednesday (February 7, 2007), our website invites a private detective Mr. Yan from an investigation company of Nanjing and the psychological counselor Professor Xu Qingzhao to the online program to solve the puzzles of the extramarital affairs. We have been familiar with such words as “love affair”, “extramarital love”, and “extramarital lover”. In recent 20 years, great changes have taken place in the attitudes toward marriage of Chinese people. Most adults have dumped the traditional attitudes toward marriage and are less faithful to each other in their marriage. In the program, the participants express different opinions about extramarital love. Some say people place importance on sex in extramarital affairs, others say they seek true love in extramarital love. But they all agree that the stability of family is threatened by the extramarital love. If not deal with extramarital love in the right way, the family may fail into pieces. Professor Xu says, “Extramarital love sounds beautiful and seems the rejuvenation of love. When people seek happiness and passion in the extramarital affair, they rarely realize that their beloved are crying alone. Extramarital love is the root of endless pains, and people should treat it rationally. You had better keep away from it, or you may make the biggest mistake in your life.” Detective Huang says, “The extramarital love can be prevented and solved, and there are many reasons. Divorce is not the best way to solve the problem, and we hope people could keep calm and take rational actions to deal with the extramarital love rationally.” Extramarital love is obviously harmful. It’s urgent for us to know how to prevent and solve this problem. We hope this program can make people realize the harm of extramarital love to themselves and their family. Family is a harbor to warm ourselves, and we should cherish its stability. Wish every couple be together until the end of their life.